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13200 Mallard Creek RoadCharlotte, NC 28262
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Because you desire a Christian wedding, it is important that the pastor performing your ceremony be able to understand your relationship with Christ and with each other. Your answers will help the pastor as he helps you to establish a good foundation for a Christian marriage.
The bride and groom must each complete a separate questionnaire.
Name*
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Officiating Pastor:*
Your Faith:
What is your church affiliation and background?*
When did you become a Christian? Explain what it means to be a Christian?*
3. What church are you currently attending and what is your involvement? Are you a member in good standing?*
Your Relationship:
1. How long have you known your fiancé(e)?*
2. When did you realize that you wanted to marry your fiancé(e)? (Approximate date)*
3. How long have you been engaged?*
4. Do you have any children? If so, how many?*
5. Are you living with your fiancé(e) now? *
6. Indicate your parents’ attitude toward your fiancé(e):
7. How do you perceive your prospective in-laws’ attitude toward you:
8. What are some of your common interests?*
9. State honestly any fears, concerns, or apprehensions you feel about your anticipated marriage.*
Your History:
1. Have you been married before? *
If divorced, please indicate reason for divorce, circumstances surrounding it, date divorce was obtained, and how long your previous marriage(s) lasted:
2. Name one or two life events (good or bad) that have significantly shaped your life.*
3. Have you been honest with your fiancé(e) about your past?*
4. Does your worldview align with your fiancé(e)'s past?*
5. Are your parents living? (If not, date of death)*
6. Are your parents living together? (If not, date of separation/divorce)*
7. How many siblings do you have? List their gender(s).*
8. Where is your hometown?*
9. What is your father’s occupation?*
10. What is your mother’s occupation?*
12. What is your parents' church affiliation?*
13. What is the degree of their church involvement?*
14. What is the depth of their Christian commitment?*
15. Do you agree with this statement: “You don’t just marry the individual; you marry the whole family.” Why or why not?*
16. List the strengths of your parents’ marriage that you most want to experience in your own:*
17. What weaknesses in your parents’ marriage do you wish to avoid? *
Your Future:
1. Do you plan on having children? If yes, how many?*
2. When would you like to start having children?
3. Have you ever thought about adopting?*
4. What methods of discipline are you looking to use with your children?*
5. After you have children, what does work look like for you or your spouse?
Your Role in Marriage:
What does biblical leadership and submission look like in a marriage?*
In what ways were your parents a good or poor example of biblical leadership and submission in a marriage?*
For the man: What are your fears, struggles, or concerns in learning to lead your future wife?*
For the woman: What are your fears, struggles, or concerns in learning to submit to your future husband?*
Your Finances:
New clothes
Hobbies, recreation
Automobile
Books, magazines
Music equipment
Home furnishings
Groceries
Eating out
Entertaining guests
Gifts for spouse
Gifts for others
Vacations
Video Games
2. Which of you has had more experience in managing finances*
3. Who will manage your family finances?*
4. Do you have a tentative budget?*
5. Will the wife be employed after you are married? If so, are the reasons primarily financial, or commitment to a career?*
6. After marriage, do you plan to merge your bank accounts? *
If you answer “no” to questions #6, then please explain